Off the record
What you say to a woman across a table in the evening stays between you. This page lists what the site holds, and why.
What we keep
- Your account: the email you registered, a hashed password, a first name, birth date, gender, plus any extra you add in your corner.
- Your chats, and her notes about you, because remembering is how she works.
- A session cookie, plus a second that marks you as having cleared the adults-only gate.
- Payment records: amount and transaction reference. A card number never reaches us; the box office takes none.
- Routine server logs, kept briefly as a safeguard.
What we use it for
To run the chat, apply house sense and keep the doors open. A model hosted by us, or run by a provider held to the same task, deals with each message, and software checks for safety. Your chats are never sold, and advertisers never read them.
Counting visits
A simple analytics counter notes how many arrived and from which region. It cannot see inside your chats.
Your controls
Each chat menu gives you three moves: amend what she has noted, take a transcript, or clear the evening. To remove the account and everything it holds, write from its email to the desk. If your local law gives you more rights than these, name them and the desk will honour them.